UNKINK & DRINK
Aligning with God vs Timing of God. How to drink from the well within.
GREAT NEW! You Might Not Be Waiting On GOD! -Here’s What’s Really Going On
Keywords: stop waiting on God, living in alignment with the Holy Spirit, Christian healing, renewing your mind, Holy Spirit within, spiritual growth
Hey friend,
You can raise your hand! No one’s looking.
Have you ever found yourself saying something like, “I’m just waiting on God…” — but deep down, you’re frustrated, confused, and honestly a little tired of waiting?
Yeah, me too.
I used to think I was being patient and faithful. But the more I leaned into the Holy Spirit, the more I realized: I wasn’t actually waiting on God… I was just out of alignment. Not out of salvation or even fellowship with Him but I wan’t experiencing His promises like I knew I could be.
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God’s Not Far Away—He’s In You
Here’s the truth that will flipped everything:
If you’ve received Jesus, God’s Spirit isn’t “out there” somewhere. He lives inside you.
I know you hear this in church but why are most Christians still live like we’re trying to reach a God who’s far away? It can be easy to live like we have to earn peace, or pray harder for healing, or worship longer to feel close to Him.
But the Holy Spirit isn’t a visitor. He’s a resident.
He’s not waiting for the right moment to show up—He already has!
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It’s Not About More Anointing—The Assignment is Alignment
So if God is already in us, why do we still feel so stuck sometimes?
Why do we pray and not feel peace? Why do we worship and still feel dry?
Most of the time, it’s not about needing more of God. It’s about removing the “kinks” in our thinking that block the flow of what’s already there.
Think of it like a straw. The cup is full but if the straw is bent, nothing’s coming out. That’s what happens when we’re carrying things like:
• Bitterness
• Unforgiveness
• Fear
• Old beliefs that don’t line up with truth
The Holy Spirit doesn’t leave us when those things show up. But the flow gets blocked. When I think about a straw being bent down and kinked I’m reminded of the scripture in Psalms 3:3
“You, O Lord, are a shield for me,
My glory and the One who lifts up my head.”
When you lift the top of the straw back up you have an unrestricted flow. When you allow your mind to be renewed to the truth of who God is and who He created you to be you too can experience the freedom of unrestricted joy, peace, confidence…
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The Holy Spirit Isn’t Optional—He’s the Whole Plan
Jesus didn’t leave us a 5-step program for Christian living.
He left us the Spirit of God Himself.
John 16 calls Him our Comforter, Helper, Teacher, and Guide. And He’s not just giving you nice advice—He’s trying to lead you into the life Jesus already died to give you.
So when we say “I’m waiting on God,” a better question might be:
“Where am I out of alignment with the truth He’s already spoken?”
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What’s Already Yours
Here’s what’s already inside of you if the Holy Spirit is living in you:
• Peace that doesn’t depend on your circumstances
• Wisdom for that decision you’re stressing about
• Healing that doesn’t come from trying harder
• Joy that doesn’t make sense to the world
• Courage to move forward, even when you feel unqualified
And this part is wild—you don’t have to strive to get it. You just have to receive it.
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A Quick Story
At a recent women’s retreat, one of the ladies came in with so much heaviness—physically, emotionally, spiritually. She had been waiting and praying and doing all the right things, but nothing was shifting.
We didn’t do anything fancy. We simply helped her reconnect with the truth of who God is and where He lives—in her.
And I kid you not—her face changed. Her posture changed. She literally looked lighter and was healed.
Not because the problem vanished overnight, but because she finally let the Holy Spirit move freely through her again. Healing was already in her, she just needed help accessing it.
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Don’t Let Your Mind Be the Block
Romans 12:2 says, “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind THAT you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
God’s Spirit in you is constant. But your thoughts? Those can either invite His power to flow or keep it bottled up.
Ask yourself:
• What am I believing that doesn’t match God’s truth?
• Where am I agreeing with fear instead of faith?
• What mindset might be choking the flow of His Spirit in me?
When we change our thinking, allowing God to lift up our heads, we are proving what His good, acceptable and perfect will for our life is. This choice is ours.
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You’re Not Powerless—You’re Partnered
Listen, you don’t need to chase another revival.
You don’t need to wait for the next breakthrough.
You already have access to the God of the breakthrough—right now.
So here’s your permission to stop striving.
Stop waiting.
Stop living like God’s holding something back.
Instead, start leaning into what’s already yours.
Drink deeply from the well that lives inside you.
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Want Help Walking This Out?
If this hit home and you’re like, “Okay, now what?” — I’d love to walk with you through it.I help women just like you move from spiritual dryness to Spirit-led living. This isn’t about hype or formulas. It’s about learning to hear His voice, walk in His power, and live from a place of alignment.
Click here to schedule a discovery session. Let’s find the kinks, untangle the mindset mess, and get you living in the flow again.
You were made to live WITH God, not just wait on Him. And He’s ready when you are.
